Tips to Bring Your Female Partner to Climax
In this article, we will take a look at a few pieces of advice that will assist a man in bringing his female partner to orgasm when having sex.
The first thing that you can do to increase the chances of bring your partner to orgasm is the proper use of foreplay. Before you go straight to the physical foreplay, verbal play is very important as well. Verbally caress your partner by telling her how beautiful she is and when she starts to get charged up, start telling her what you want to do with her sexually. When the tension has built up, then move onto physical foreplay, by gently touching her sensitive areas such as her; hands, fingers, mouth, feet, and toes.
Sexual foreplay is also a great way to help your partner have an orgasm. Try performing oral sex on your partner, and take the time to rub her erogenous zones, e.g. nipples, thighs, butt, and anus (ask her first). This will heighten her sexual experience, and will help her completely relax.
Make sure that you do not seem too eager for her to climax, because the added pressure of expectation will probably get in the way of your success. Let her know that you have all the time in the world for her, and that you plan on taking all the time in the world to please her. When she is relaxed, the chances of her achieving orgasm are also much greater.
Six Sexual Fantasies that Women Have
Teacher and Student
Teacher and student fantasies are very common. Take turns playing the student and the teacher. This is a tension-building teasing game, and allows for a lot of role-playing possibilities, e.g. ‘punishing’ each other.
Threesome
When most men think of a threesome, they imagine it involving themselves and two women. Many women also fantasize about having a threesome, but they think of it differently. Women think of a threesome with their male partner, and a female partner as well, but they also think of having a threesome with two men. This may not be the most desirable scenario for a heterosexual male, but you may be surprised at your own enjoyment. And, who knows? By being open to a threesome with another male, your female partner may be more open to having a threesome with another female.
With a Stranger
Having sex with a stranger is dangerous and exciting. Not knowing how kinky or strange that it may be can add an adrenaline kick to the sex. This is a great role-playing game. You an your partner can meet in public, and pretend to be strangers. Although you already know one another, the role-playing side of this fantasy will surprise you at how much it adds to the excitement.
She Likes to Watch
Most people like to watch sex, whether it be a video, or the live act. Your female partner is no different! To act out this fantasy with your partner, simultaneous masturbation is a great starter. Also, if you decide to have a threesome, you can take turns being the voyeur.
Domination
The power play involved in domination and submission can add excitement as you take turns being in control of one another. Domination could be anything from tying up your partner, blindfolding them, making your partner wait for orgasm, or simply telling your partner what to do and when to do it.
Striptease
Men love lapdances, and so do many women. Unfortunately, most men do not dance for their partners. To really get her worked up, and to truly show her what you are willing to do for her, surprise her with a sexy striptease. She will be through-the-roof with excitement!
Phone Sex is a Great Way to Have Sex
When most people think of different types of sex, they usually think of sexual intercourse, oral sex, or anal sex. An often overlooked, very satisfying type of sex is phone sex. It can be just as thrilling as being with a physical partner, and it is just as safe as masturbation. It is great way for partners to build intimacy when they are apart, and it is an exciting way to enjoy masturbation with a phone sex actress.
Phone sex is a great way to live out fantasies that may otherwise be deemed unacceptable or taboo by your significant other(s), but may in fact be totally normal! For example, if you have bisexual, threesome, foot fetish, or other fantasies, but you are concerned that by actually carrying those out you would be cheating on your partner, or mentioning them would alarm your partner, phone sex is a great way to act out these fantasies with a professional phone actress. Other examples of common phone-sex fantasies are; fetishes, domination, submission, or cuckold.
If you just want to add some excitement to ordinary masturbation, phone sex is a great way to add a thrilling new dimension to your experience. While most phone sex operators charge by the minute, a typical phone call runs for less than fifteen minutes, and will be well-worth the money. Additionally, phone sex operators are also experts in special-interest sex, and can be an invaluable resource for sex tips and information.
Five Signs That a Woman is Sexually Satisfied
She is Aware of Her Sexiness
Typically, when a woman is sexually satisfied with her partner, it will show. In other words, when a woman is sexually satisfied, she will be aware that she is hot, and her self-confidence should be noticeable. On the contrary, if a woman is unsatisfied sexually, then it will be apparent that she does not feel as desired- and thus not as hot.
Penis Size is Not as Important As You May Think
The size of your penis is not as important as how you use it! Women are satisfied in many other ways than by the penis alone, and are often more satisfied by the passion of the sex than the physical act of sex. Only a small percentage of sexually satisfied women claimed that penis-size is vital to their sexual satisfaction.
She Craves More Sex
When the sex is good, she will crave more (and you probably will too). If the sex is terrible, she will probably not want any more than she’s already getting. Think about it. If you ate awful, nearly inedible food, why would you go back for seconds? Sex is no different!
Women Enjoy the Pleasure of Sex More Than the Orgasms
For men, sex is about achieving orgasm. Although women enjoy orgasms just as much as men, they tend to get a more emotional connection from sex than men. And, many women enjoy the pleasure of having sex and the emotional connection just as much as they enjoy achieving an orgasm. In other words, bringing her to orgasm is not the only way to satisfy her.
She is Vocal When She Wants Sex
Like the previous point, when the sex is good, she will want more of it. If she is vocal about wanting more, and she comfortably expresses her sexuality, it is a good sign that you are doing a good job.
Five Common Sexual Fantasies That Women Have
Mutual Masturbation
She wants to pleasure herself while you watch. She enjoys being watched and desired as she masturbates. Many women are also interested in simultaneous masturbation, where you watch one another and masturbate. This is a great way to build tension and wind up for some amazing sex.
Make a Naughty Home Movie
All you need is a video camera, and you can have tons of fun making a home-movie with your significant other. It can be a lot of fun to watch together later on. You can either mount the camera on a tripod, or take turns holding the camera. This may also help you critique your technique when you play it back.
Take Turns Dominating One Another
Many women like dominant/submissive role-play in bed. A great way to have dominant and submissive role-play is by taking turns tying one another up, or blindfolding each other. The play of power during sex leads to a heightened state of arousal.
Have a Threesome
Many women fantasize about bringing a third partner to bed. A three-some is, not surprisingly, most men’s fantasy too. It can be a lot of fun, because you get to take turns pleasuring each other, two-on-one. When you bring a third person into the bedroom, it becomes more about the physical pleasure. Make sure you discuss this one at length before actually doing it.
Try Public Sex
Having sex in public can be a thrilling experience, it’s no wonder that it is such a common fantasy that women have. The thrill of doing something ‘wrong’ and the risk of potentially getting caught pumps up adrenaline, and adds a lot of excitement. Just be careful with this one, because you can actually get caught.
